Archive for July, 2011

Day 5

A time where you thought of taking your own life

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Hmmm uhmmm….NEVER

I’ve thought about when other girls would do it and what would prompt them, but I never really thought of it. I figured my mom and sister would miss me too much etc.

I think people who have attempted and succeed to take their own lives are very selfish, because they don’t think of the consequences of this actions. Granted I have never been in this person’s state of mind, and don’t know what type of diseases or illness they’ve previously suffered, but this is my outlook on things.

Until next time
(Even though I know day 5 is a day late)
NH

Day 4

You views on religion.

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For those that don’t know me, or for those that would never guess, I am 100% catholic. I a? Catholic by choice, not because my mom forced me to do it. I am Catholic because I love my faith and my religion. I believe that there is a God. I believe that going to mass every Sunday is therapeutic. I believe that receiving the Holy Communion is neccasary. I believe that confessing to a Spiritual Director is the same as speaking directly God. I believe that every saint came down with a purpose. I believe that Adam and Eve were the first creations to walk this earth. I am Catholic.

I am not agnostic. I don’t believe that there is a higher being but no relgion to believe in. I don’t believe that all religions are wrong. I believe that your faith is the most powerful thing you can have.

I also believe that religion is a touchy subject, which is why I will never bring it up. I believe that religion is a subject in which has a lot of personal value to me and not worth thhe confrontation, which is why it should be kept out of daily conversation unless you attend a religious school. I am not one of those people that will throw down information in your face telling you your religion is wrong.

Everyone is entitled to their own beliefs, just don’t try to convert me and tell me that being Catholic is wrong, and we’ll be ok.

Until Day 5 

Day 3

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Your views on drugs and alcohol

I’m not gonna say that I don’t drink and I don’t smoke and that I’ve never done it. But I do it in moderation.

Just because you are 18 years old or 21 years old, and by law you’re “allowed” to drink/smoke, doesn’t mean you sound. No one knows there body better than you do, you should know what you can handle. You should know when enough is enough. There is no need for ignorant people on the train or in the car or even in the party. When I drink, I drink to feel nice, not to black out.

These are just my views.

Until Day 4 =)
NH

Day 2

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Where do you see yourself in 10 Years.

I see myself as the mother of a teenage boy -___- .
That’s a mission all on it’s self.

I’ve never really thought of my personal future because that always seems to be changing. I imagined myself married with two kids, but that’s not going to happen based on what my present is now. I’ve paid more attention to my career future and my ambitions.

In 10 years I want to be a CEO of a family owned hotel in the city. My present is to be able to reach those goals in the most affective way as possible.

Day 1

Describe what your current relationship status is, if single explain how the single life is.

I find this first question,…quite humerous.

According to facebook…my relationship status, is currently single. Now when you want to get technical (and of course we all know that I do anyways) I am separated. Lol

I hate saying that, because that still leaves me some attachment to my ex, which I guess makes sense, since we have our son and all of us still have the same last name. But I refer to myself as SINGLE like the dollar bill. No one to claim me, no one to answer to, I am FREE to do whatever the hell I want. Well,….not really. I still have my son, so I can’t do WHATEVER I want, but you get the idea.

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Of course being single gets lonely, you don’t have that consistency of laying down next to someone you love, or kissing them whenever or missing someone, but like I’ve said before, I’m in no rush to find the perfect man. I have been dating people, but no prince charming yet. Once I do become exclusive with someone, I’m sure you all will be the first to know =)

Until Day 2
NH

30 Day Blog Challenge

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So I said like 2 months ago that I would do,….so here it is…since I feel my writers block is over…the 30 blog challenge….

Here is the list and starting TOMORROW, July 14th 2011, I will begin my 30 Day Challenge.

Get ready blogging world… I’m back =)
NH

Momma’s Boy

Growing up it has always been me, my sister and my cousin. We are my grandparents only grandbabies, we are the only children in the family. We are a bunch of girls that kind of got away with a lot of girly shit. We had barbies, dresses, video games, anything girly, we had it.

When I had told my family that I was pregnant, they all knew that my offspring would get spoiled. This would be the first grandbaby to my mom and aunt (who raised me like her daughter) and my grandparent’s first great-grandbaby. So we all knew that whatever this child would be, it would be spoiled with love and gifts all the time. When I found out he was a boy, everyone went hysterical. Not only was this the first baby in 2 decades, this was the first boy. In a household full of females, it was about time we had some testerones in our lives. So not only was my child getting spoiled already for being a baby, he was getting ultra spoiled for being a boy.

Three years later, my son is exteremly spoiled. I must admit that I do not spoil him as much as my mom, or his aunts do, but I am up there. I do tell my son no, but that’s with exceptions. If he wants a cookie, he’ll get it but after he finishes eating his meal. He has a curfew, if he wants to stay up later, I usually allow him to only if he lies down on the bed and its to watch Mickey Mouse (his greatest obsession currently). There’s a lot of things we let my son get away with, but he listens to us whenever we say no.

We KNOW that he’s spoiled. We’ve never denied it. My neice is spoiled to, and I’m sure once she gets to the age of asking for what she wants and knowing how to get what she wants, she’ll be even more spoiled as well. I just hate when people feel the need to tell me that like its a problem.

I want my son to know that I will always be there for him. So what if he gets all the toys he wants? So what if he runs to me whenever he injures himself? So what if he runs to my arms when he has a nightmare. He is MY angel and I want him to know that there is no safer, welcoming place other than mom’s arms.

Yes, other moms say that I’m not raising him to be “man” enough, but doesn’t it really matter that I’m showing him that he never has to worry about mom not backing him up? I want him to be able to confide in me when he’s older so that whenever a situation comes about, I will always be there for him. I’m sure that IF I have another child I will be the same with this other child, or else I would just have to share my spoiling.

I love my life, and my son’s life. I want my son to feel the love and affection of family. So far, I think I’m succeeding, even if I’m censoring all the bad that this world has to provide.

Until Next Time
NH